Hi guys, today I woukd like to adress a relationship issue. I read the post below on my twitter page:
    She typed and I qoute, "hi please keep me anonymous. My byfriend of 5 years is threatening to break up with me if I don't sleep with him. We initially agreed to wait until marriage but all of  a sudden, he wants sex. I know he has tried but I don't want to have sex now. He is serious about leaving me for any lady that will give him. Pls i need advise, I know I can't have it both ways but I don't want to lose him, and at thesame time I don't want to lose my virginity either..."

    That was the post. I am not trying to be judgemental here but I have a little to say and I hope I don't sound biased with my assumptions.
    First of all, I would like to ask ladies a question; do you want to lose your virginity in a pleasurable way or in an abusive manner? Second of all, I once read something and I believed it. it says "a guy who truly loves you will do many things rightly towards you without being corrected". Thirdly, what exactly is the probability that this guy in question is not already having another affair outside of your relationship? Or could it not be that he wants to leave the relationship but just doesn't have a specific excuse? You as a lady must also note that a man that loves you will love all that you love, and hate all that you hate, he would never want to see you hurt, nor see you cry. So he will support you as you support him too.

    So, after all the above thibgs I thought, I came up with the conclusion that if he loves you, he will wait. he obviously doesn't by trying to force you into what you don't want to do. follow me and read more about this as I'll adress this issue on my blog


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